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A Sponsor; Searching the Lost Manhood

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Sponsors In Kenya, the word sponsor has different meanings, these meanings are derived from the environment they are spoken and who is speaking. In corporate world, it means something different from the meaning in the parliament where a legislature sponsors a bill. Among single people it has a differently meaning. Make no mistake to speak of sponsorship among young adult Kenyans; it will derive a different meaning altogether. Sponsors among the teenagers and those below 30 years of age will tell you categorically that it means the rich middle aged or senile men who sleep with the young girls and ladies in exchange they sustain them. Reference is mostly made to the married and divorcees; however the senile have dominated the category lately. A majority of average Kenyan male teenagers or those below 35 years of age are struggling to be in a relationship with women their ages or younger. He alleges that if she is in the relationship, she may either be half way in; you may jus...

Can we Chat without Cheating?

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Happy new year folks! So one of these past fine days of this New Year I was in a debate with a friend.   My friend and I talk about a lot of things but on this day, a discussion led us into a debate that I was not going to be understood if I stuck to my not-so-informed guns of psychology because of the unchartered waters.   Have you ever been in a situation where you have a lot to say? A lot such that you are afraid when you start talking it will be mistaken for blather?   If yes, thank you because I was in that state when we got to the thick of it. If no, too bad. Get a life. So this friend comes up with a lent concept that; it is highly unlikely for two people of opposite sex to talk and chat on regular basis without cheating. Oh boy! My exact reaction.   The friend ask for my opinion or my take on the whole nebulous saying that two of opposite sex cannot be in constant communication without cheating (Assuming that both have partners; whether married ...